Monday, March 24, 2008
Easter day was very relaxing for us. We had a little FHE in the morning and then went to church. We only went to sacrament meeting because we went to have a late lunch with Ana and Jonathan, along with Mike's parents. Its a good thing we only stayed at church for an hour because Mike was ready to kill Reighlyn. She didn't get a long enough nap, so she was cross. She was throwing crayons, fruit snacks, and pretty much anything else and when you took it away from her she would scream. That is the bad thing about 1 o'clock church with a child who usually takes a nap from 12-2. Luckily we have started sending her to nursery a little early, I know, but it makes church much better for everyone. So after the first hour of church it is usually easy sailing, except 2 weeks ago she started going through this mommy stage where I can't be 5 feet away from her without hearing, "mama, mama, mama" It was cute at first, but now its getting old. She won't even let dad give her a bath and put her to bed, so most nights I get to bath and put to bed both kids, not Mike's fault. But luckily both kids put themselves to sleep, so it really isn't that bad. And once there a sleep around 7:30 they sleep most of the night. Reighlyn sleeps until 6 or 7 in the morning, Keegan sleeps 6-8 hours gets up and eats and then goes back to bed....oh wonderful.
Reighlyn has decided that she loves to be outside. When we were cleaning out the garage Saturday morning, she was running around screaming like it was the funnest thing in the world. Needless to say when it was time to come in, she was not happy at all. It is just another reason why we are so excited that we are building our new house now. The new house should be done at the end of June/beginning of July, so still plenty of summer left for Reighlyn to play in our new fenced yard. Also the neighborhood we are building in has its own playground so that will be so nice to just walk there instead of packing them up in the car and driving to find a not so busy park somewhere. The playground in the neighborhood is only for those that live in the gated neighborhood, so that will be nice. The new house will also bring a new ward. We love the people of our ward, but they are not our age at all, so it will be nice to go to church and not have our kids be the only ones that make a noise. The neighborhood also has a 2 mile walkway they are putting in that goes along the river, so no more taking walks on a busy street.
So house stuff has been taking up a lot of time. With having to go in and pick out colors or paint, cupboards, carpet, flooring, etc. I never knew it was so time consuming to pick everything out,but when you have to go through and make sure every outlet is where you want it and that all the colors flow well...it takes a lot of time. But luckily we have finished all of that and they should start building in the next week or so. It will be exciting once it gets started and starts looking like a house. Mike and I will have to be out there a lot to make sure everything is going like it should and where it should. Really it will be more Mike than me since I have the kids. Ok, well we will update more later and I will try to get some pictures up also.
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Ok, ok I know it has really been FOREVER since I updated this, but it seems like everyday I plan on doing it or even have a thought to do it, other things come up and before you know it the day is gone, well for that matter it seems the month is gone.
So I will try my best to catch you all up on the last 6 months of our lives since that is really the last time I blogged anything. First thing would be Reighlyn’s first trip to
Well for all those that know how big I get when I am pregnant you understand how uncomfortable I was around Christmas being pregnant with Keegan. It was so bad that I could no longer walk normal without very painful pains, so I was taking some wonderful drugs to help with the pain, Loratab. Well after taking this, it made Keegan very tired in the womb so the doctor decided to take mercy on me and take me 2 weeks and 1 day early. A planed c-section is a lot different than trying to go natural and then having to have a c-section. We checked in the hospital at
Having Keegan has changed our lives, but for good that’s for sure. Everyone asks me if it is so hard to have two children now, if I feel like I am just running around with my head cut off. My answer is always no. I was watching my sister’s kids before Keegan was born, so I was watching a 2 year old and two almost 1 year old, so having just one 1 year old and a new born is pretty easy to handle. Especially since Keegan sleeps a lot still. We have had quite a busy last two months though since Keegan was born. Keegan was born just a couple of days before spring semester started for Mike and I. I had registered for two classes and thought I could handle it and was for a while, but I felt I was unable to give all of the time I wanted to to the kids, so I dropped the classes and decided to be done with school for awhile, at least till the kids are older. Mike is currently registered for 4 classes this semester, but it finding out how hard it is to work a full time job, go to school full time and have two children. We are very blessed to have Mike working were he is though. After my c-section I had a lot of issues with healing. First my stomach took longer than excepted to heal, but that wasn’t the worst part. It was the migraines that I started having everyday when I quit taking my pain medication. They had no idea what was wrong and my doctor thought it could be a blood clot in my brain or leaking spinal fluid from my spinal block, so I had to go to the ER when I spiked a temperature of 103.5 to have an MRI and other tests ran. They didn’t find anything with a blood clot, but I was dehydrated, had low blood count, had a bladder infection, and an infection from breastfeeding. So they treated all of that, but I was still having bad migraines to the point were someone had to be here with me at all times to help with the kids because a lot of the time I was in bed with the lights off and a blanket over my head. Luckily we have great family, when Mike couldn’t be here my sister, mother-in-law, and Lauren helped out. There will never be enough we can do to thank them all for what they did. Well after a trip to a Neurologist, he decided my headaches were due to a sudden change in hormones since I had my baby via c-section when my body wasn’t at all in labor. So they gave me some drugs that helped my get through life until my hormones stabilized. Needless to say things are back to normal and things are great now.
One new piece of news that happened to us is we sold my car in January. Now we did this for one main purpose, my transmission was going out and that is not something we wanted to deal with. So while Mike was on his way home from work one night he just stopped to look at cars and ended up test driving one home that evening. Well needless to say I never saw my car again. We ended up trading in my car for a 2003 Ford Expedition Eddie Bower SUV. It is a very nice car and has taken me a while to get use to it, but I drive it like a pro now. We had always said we would get an SUV when we got rid of my car, so that’s what we did and have been very happy with the decision ever since. We will just plan on driving that to
When Keegan was a month old, we blessed him in our home, just like we did with Reighlyn. Now I know some think you should or have to bless your babies in church on a fast Sunday, but you don’t. You just need your bishop’s permission and one of the members of the bishopric to be present when you do it. Mike and I decided to bless Reighlyn at home for a couple of reasons. First was we blessed her on Thanksgiving Day when all of my family was here, so then they could stand in the circle and such. Also Mike and I feel that a baby blessing is a very personal thing, it is that child’s first father’s blessing and that is not something we want to do in sacrament meeting. We make it very personal by doing it in our home. We have a testimony meeting first to make sure the spirit is there and then we have the blessing. My dad and little brother flew out for the blessing which we did on February 3rd, which happens to be Ana’s birthday and also Super bowl Sunday with year, so we had the blessing and then had a super bowl party and then a birthday party all wrapped up into one exciting, wonderful, eventful evening.
Our next big adventure was making a trip to
I can’t believe that Keegan is already 2 months old. Things have been going pretty good with him. I must say that you learn things from your first to your second child. With Reighlyn we put her to sleep every night and it was very hard to keep her to sleep. That is not the case with Keegan, we have just laid him down, and so he has learned to put himself to sleep which is a great thing when you have two kids. The thing with Keegan is that he just loves to sleep. Right from the moment he was born he was pretty much sleeping through the night. During the day he didn’t do the normal new born schedule of eating every 2 hours, he would go every 4 hours. Then at night he would go about 6 hours. Well now I usually feed him around 7 and then go lay him down and he sleeps through the night and will wake up about 5 or so to eat and then goes back to sleep until 9. Reighlyn is also putting herself to sleep around 7 or 7:30 and then she sleeps until 6 or so, then wakes up, so she usually has a little milk and then goes back to sleep until 8:30 or so. We really are blessed to have children who sleep and are easy to put to sleep. Keegan did go through a stage were he didn’t want to be put down, but do you blame him, he has a big sister who just tries to love him too much. She loves to give kisses and hugs and really thinks she should hold him all the time. Oh and when he is cry she will force him to take his pacifier whether he wants it or not, but she means well, she hates it when he is crying himself to sleep, she stands at the bedroom door and repeats over and over, “Brother, brother”. Keegan now loves to watch Einstein with Reighlyn in his saucer. He just loves to be in the upright position and since he has been holding his head up since a week old, it works to leave him the saucer. Ok well I think that is enough updating for one day, I will update soon…I promise.